WARNING: Life Insurance should not go through your estate
WARNING WARNING WARNING....life insurance does not (and should not) go through your estate....usually. The reason I say this is based upon an experience I had just yesterday with the surviving children of a decedent.
The decedent passed away in February with a will and a memorial letter attached to the front of it which stated what she would like to have happen with her assets, including the proceeds from a life insurance policy. The will was typical in which it left everything equally to the surviving children. Seems simple right?
The memorial letter stated that the mother wishes to have the home sold and the proceeds split among the 4 daughters. (Important fact: the will was a do it yourself will. These instructions would have been put into the will by a qualified attorney to make sure they were followed.) The letter also stated that she wished to have some of her insurance go to the education of 1 of her grandchildren. The life insurance, however, only went to 2 of the 4 daughters.
After the probate petitions were signed by everyone, one daughter, who did not receive any of the life insurance, asked me if the letter had to be followed and, if so, then she wanted her sisters to deal with her in getting her son's education taken care of. Her son is 19 and already in college. What I told her was not what she wanted to hear and caused the meeting to go from friendly to horrible and she walked out.
Why? Because the letter and even the will itself, has no legal significance as to how the life insurance proceeds are used. The life insurance never went through the estate so the will has no power. It is not a legal issue. It is a moral issue with the two daughters.
The only time life insurance goes through the estate is if (i) the estate is a named beneficiary, (ii) all the named beneficiaries have passed away, or (iii) there is no beneficiary named. Otherwise, life insurance passes to the named beneficiaries allowing them to use the death benefit anyway they deem fit. Again, this could have easily been avoided by either naming the grandson as a beneficiary to part of it or setting up a trust for the grandson. The good news here is that the 2 daughters are in fact using part of the money according to their mother's wishes and are dealing directly with the grandson since he is in college to take care of some of his expenses.
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